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The bottom line is as follows: if you are a writer, you should join with other writers. They are the only people in the world who truly understand you. The right writing community will laugh with you, cry with you, and scream into the night with you (not too loudly; you'll wake the neighbors). A good group can mean the difference between success and failure. Community for writers is invaluable.
You might not yet be sold on the idea of coming together with other writers. "It's a solitary craft," I hear you whine, "why in the world should I talk to anybody?" Here are some benefits to joining a community of writers:
Be active on social media. ESPECIALLY TWITTER. Seriously, people. Twitter changed my life. I've made so many writing friends on there that I almost can't believe it. Feel free to follow me and we can live it up. If you have social media accounts, make sure you use them! And often! No one likes an inactive user. Tweet, reply, mention, direct, message, or whatever it takes to keep up with the Kardashians (kidding, of course, because none of them are writers).
Ask for nothing. I mean it. Don't tweet at people asking them to read your stuff over and over again, especially if you've never had a normal conversation. Don't ask people to buy everything you put out. Don't obsess over self-promotion. That's a massive turn-off. Just be you. Focus on building relationships and you'll find that plenty of people will be interested in your work.
Do nice things for other people. This tip goes hand in hand with not asking for anything. When it comes to flourishing in a community, you need to give more than you receive. Help people out. Be a good human being. Remember the Golden Rule? Yeah, it's time you use it. The nicer you are to other writers, the more likely it is that they'll return the favor.
Reach out. If you've got a question or need advice about something, don't be afraid to ask! Sometimes all you need is some encouragement. That's where community comes in. I've had so many questions answered by my friends on Twitter, and I'm eternally grateful for their help. Don't feel embarrassed to reach out for help! Everyone's been there at one point or another.
It's not that hard to meet and interact with other writers. As long as you follow my tips, focus on being genuine, and use your manners, you'll be just fine.
What do you think of these tips? How has joining a community helped you and your writing?